Does My Guy Friend Like Me?

Does my guy friend like me is not an easy question to answer and it's often hard to tell if a guy likes you or just wants to be friends. If you are not sure if he likes you then perhaps reading this article may help?

Of course if your guy friend does like you then that opens up a whole new thing to deal with and I am sure you will find the help you need in the articles on this website.

Does my guy friend like me? is a common question because, more often than not, guys are not as good communicators as women (or many gay guys) and the question never seems answered and people end up wondering does he love me or just want to be friends?

Perhaps if you ask yourself a few questions about your relationship and how it usually turns out then that will help. For instance...

Does your guy friend call you?

If your guy friend hardly ever calls you or you mostly call him then perhaps that's a sign that he is looking at the relationship simply as friendship? If your guy friend calls you all he time or regularly then perhaps he likes you a little more than a friend and you may well start to ask yourself... Does my guy friend like me?

Is he kinaesthetic?

Okay, so you are asking, what's kinaesthetic? Right? Well, I'll tell you! See, there are 3 ways we look at the world, visual (seeing), auditory (hearing) and kinaesthetic (touching).

If your guy friend is”touchy feely” then perhaps he likes you and may want to take things further? Does he hug you a lot? Perhaps he holds your hand now and again or touches you while talking.

Does he hold open doors, let you go first?

If your guy friend likes you, he may open doors, allow you to go first and generally treat you with a different kind of respect than he would his guy friends. Of course he might just be being polite too so don't jump to conclusions based on this. Better to look at everything and make a decision based on that.

Does he offer to pay?

Many guys still have old fashioned values and wont expect a lady to pay, however if you truly are just friends then that might not hold true. Does he insist on paying when you go for lunch or bowling or to the cinema? This can be a strong sign your guy friend likes you.

Social settings

When you, say, go to a party together, does he spend most of his time in the kitchen with the guys, mostly with you or hanging round “hot women / guys?” Wanting to spend more time with you while there are other “tempting” distractions can also be a clear sign that your guy friend likes you and might want more.

Before you approach your guy friend to see if he wants more than friendship please try to think carefully before you jump to any conclusions and also remember that if you dive in head first without thinking about it then it could make things awkward. So, ask yourself... Does my guy friend like me?

Good luck with your guy friend and remember that you can always find dating advice, site reviews and safety hints and tips HERE should you need it.

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